FRIENDS

We choose a bunch of people who are called friends but not everyone we choose are our friends! They say life becomes easier when we have good friends around but not everyone we have is a good company. People come around us and we choose some to be our friends. The concept of  friends, real friends sounds like some myth sometimes. Good people are hard to find , being a good person is even harder. It feels like everyone is trying to find a good friend but yet not anyone has succeeded. Being encountered with the wrong people at the wrong time is ruining it all maybe.
Among the hundreds we meet, we share a bond with few and let them be a part of our lives not knowing how right we were to do so yet with a hope that they won't let us down. Some stay , some were never meant to stay. We don't really have a scanner to our eyes that would let us find people who are going to stay with us despite the thick and thins in our lives and to some extent it is better too. We only see the good when something bad stands in front of it. Had there been no bad things around, good things might not have been good enough. 

Always

When you came into my life, my life was in a hustle. I was spinning around something that leaded me to the same destination where I never wanted to be. We became friends, the best ones; supporting each other the best. Life seems incomplete sometimes even when you have every good people in it as expectations from the wrong people always lead to disappointment. I am proud to have you in my life who protected me from being splattered into droplets. You made me,helped me to grow stronger. Days are there when I feel gap between us , I don't say there aren't but you know my life is just so incomplete without your presence. Life never promises a tomorrow, yet I want a promise from it to have you with me always but the fear of losing you is always following me around like a dark shadow. That shadow, I hope that is following you too because its the fear of losing each other  keeps them even closer. I might behave crazy when you would not talk to me some days . I know its not possible for us to speak each and every time but that's not the reason that I become mad for ! Its just that I don't want any odd changes between us, gaps you know when they are formed its hard to build a bridge in between. I just want us to be us forever. We are everything for each other and I hope it remains like this always.:) ;) :)

We are born and we die . This is a process every life has to follow. No one here is immortal. No one can predict death and who knows I might be hit by a bus 10 minutes from now and boom everything would be just gone, I would be just gone. Life is too short not to be lived and to be loved. We even don't know what exactly gonna happen to us two seconds from now. Well, my grandpa just passed away yesterday and he loved each one of us so much and we loved him too. Actually, I feel kind of lucky because after the accident he had , he came by to stay with us and we got to spend much more time with him that specially I couldn't spend with him all these years. Well his memory was gone, he didnt recognize us properly but his love for us was still there. Whenever I would go to feed him something , he would ask me to have a little of it first. I got to spend some good time with him and not just that I was lucky enough to see him for the last time after his soul left his body. People we love, they get apart from us and this reality of life is really unacceptable to us. He is not here with us but he is missed today and will be missed forever. Dear baa, your love, your voice. your scolding, your smile, your style of combing your hair, your style of having cigarette and holding it and then the way you used to call our dearest Maa... everything

Woman, without whom a house is not considered a home, who can play her roles with full dedication even if it is that as a daughter, a sister, a wife or a mother. But the sad part is, our society is not taking that much of effort to show up that dedication to make her feel safe, make her feel protected.
Women, they don't consider themselves 'weaker' they are thought to be so, not that they are not strong enough to rise to situations but are thought to be so. She knows her rights. She knows it all. But she also knows the other side to that. 'Rights to women' comes with tags of restrictions. The society we live in does not give that freedom to a women to speak up for herself. Even when she does, her voice ends up as a echo; heard once , heard twice and then nothing. She is aware that a step taken can lead her to another new trouble. She is aware about the way how the society is still servant of men.
Of course there are women who have raised above, showed up that women are capable of doing things better; their limitations are not just to the four walls but sky is their limit but the number of women who haven't raised weights more. Here in Nepal our traditions are also making it harder because a male dominant society comes under false traditions.
Nobody else but the society, the people around should be able to provide that comfort zone for the women. There are being efforts made but still the society needs to change in more better ways until then women can't be helped; not at home, not at workplace, not in any community. Women have raised above, now the society should rise.

Relationships these days

These days relationships are as much as complicated as humans. 'I love you' these three words hold up a depth. Love is far more precious and sacred. There is sacrifice, there is trust, understanding, doubts, care. A support system, the pain, the togetherness, the joy. But the purity of it has been fading.Love is love; for the sake of yourself, for the people you share feelings with not for any status updates, posts or tweets. True love is hard to find and not compulsorily when it is found has to be yours. Love makes you know the joy of giving away. We are not some characters over movies or series who would be paired together despite every situations without loved ones. Of course there are couples who find their pace but life is not petals for all.We actually somehow force ourselves to relate to others, a sense of comparison may be. In this instant age of instant food, instant information, instant messaging we want 'instant love' oh! really now?

Love

"Love" by far the most beautiful emotion in the world. An emotion that connects two people, two souls, two hearts with an unseen thread. But stop, give an exclamation to your thought. Love doesn't compulsorily have to be between a girlfriend and a boyfriend, a husband and a wife . Nothing can match upto a motherly love, when we say love why doesn't that love of a mother strike our mind. There are various kinds of relationships in the world and for the existence of each having that love factor is important.

I am what I am

Life never says who is coming to us and who is not. It makes us meet people and let us decide on our own. Sometimes relationships we treasured for years lets us down and sometimes a stranger can make us feel so special. Sadness is never an option and neither we should be an option to others. "I am what I am " and we should be proud of that and held our head high and be Mavrick :D